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“But with the conversation on dating, hook-up culture, and sexual behavior, you still see that mentality of calling someone a slut, calling someone a hoe.”Indeed, dating today still reflects some attitudes from when the practice first began in the early 1900s.
Moira Weigel, a Ph D candidate in comparative literature at Yale University, has written a book on the history of dating.
And why play some outdated game when you’ve absolutely no intention of starting a serious relationship?
The first time I met someone I was interested in post-break-up, none of those rules were relevant.
And so while casual sex is now standard, having any feelings or concerns about such sex is seen as weird.
I can tell when a connection over drinks turns a colleague into a friend, or when you’re putting in the time with a family acquaintance and you just don’t jell.
Even when the spark’s not totally there, polite society dictates a certain common courtesy.
“People are very embarrassed by emotion and by caring,” says Weigel.
Meanwhile, women who complain about how they’ve been treated or ask a sexual partner about their relationship are dismissed as “crazy.” Despite the term’s established connections to sexist stigma, Bogle says this idea still strongly resonates among young people.
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But what I didn’t expect, and what nobody warned me about, was the sexism.