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As I came of age in the late 1960s and early 1970s, I had a few flings I later regretted. That’s also how young people learn to negotiate relationships.But I experienced no lasting scars and the same appears to be true for today’s hook-ups.Which suggests that, post-hook-up, around 16% of young adults should primarily feel regret, while 84% probably feel differently.Young adulthood is a time of sexual experimentation, and unfortunately many experiments fail.This is understandable for two reasons: Only half of hook-ups involved any genital play, and only one-third included intercourse.“Hooking up” has more to do with the casual nature of the relationship than how far things go.
But according to this study, plenty of young women participate not because they feel exploited, but because they to. Several studies have documented post-hook-up regret: about regret, ignoring other possible reactions.
A University of Illinois survey found that 49% of college men and 38% of women reported having sex as a direct result of drinking.
Canadian researchers (Fisher, 2012) asked college students about alcohol and hook-ups. As I’ve discussed previously [7.1.14], alcohol is a major factor in collegiate and military sexual assaults.
And they show that most young people feel fine about their hook-ups: These studies also show that hook-up regret is most likely in one specific circumstance—intercourse when very drunk.
As previously mentioned, about a third of hook-ups involve intercourse, and the participants are very drunk in around half of those.