How do guys feel about dating single moms
They aren't afraid of the possibility of MAYBE becoming a step parent some day and are just more mature overall.
I really REALLY take my time introducing people I date to my daughter (it was well over 6 months before my current SO met her).
Given up on the lot of them after the last relationship fizzled away. 'don't allow it to happen a second time babies should only be considered in a long term relationship' - WTF is this shit?
How can anybody possibly know if a relationship is going to last. I became a single mum at 35 and am not attractive in any way so haven't been beating them off with a stick.
I became a single mum at 35 and am not attractive in any way so haven't been beating them off with a stick.
Earwicga my friend who has for is currently seeing a man with 8 children he docent support any of them and docent have any contact.
I wouldn't because I couldn't commit to raising another persons child at this time.
It would be nice but perhaps being alone is the safest option.
Before I start, I am in a great relationship with a fab man and am getting married in August! In the nine years it was just me and DS1, I had a sucession of arsewipe boyfrienda. Or, occasionally, because they love DC but are firing blanks themselves. There are men who will target single mothers because they think they will make a lovely home for them to cock-lodge in.
However, I was a single mum for a long time and was chatting about this today with a friend (another single mum). Just like some women will target wealthy men for much the same reasons. There are going to be arseholes around no matter what your life looks like.
And while there are a few silly women who think that every new relationship should be celebrated by getting PG, there are a lot more who are too trusting for their own good, get PG because the bloke swears he'll stick around and are then left lumbered when he fucks off to impregnate someone else.
ANd while there is still such immense social pressure on women to 'form committed relationships' this crap is going to go on and on: single mothers are so stigmatized that it can make them desperate for a man, any man - and when you're desperate all you attract is abusers, parasites and predators. if you're desperate for a man you will get arseholes and put up with them.