Advice for dating a single parent
If you’ve never dated someone with children before, it’s important to know whether you’re ready or not before things get complicated and someone ends up getting hurt.
If you ready, then great, fire away, so to speak, but if you think you might not be, it’s probably best to wait until you are sure how you feel.
We’ve put together a few questions you can ask yourself to help you make that decision. If you love kids and are looking to have some of your own in the future, then dating someone who already has children might be the right step for you.
However, if you consider yourself to be someone who would like to remain childfree, then liking someone might not be enough to persuade you otherwise.
You might have some really great ideas about how you think she could do things, and you might have some strong ideas about how children should behave. If you really want to impress everyone, let her sleep while you get the pancakes going and put the coffee on, or take everyone on a doughnut run. It's very likely he will be a large part of her life for at least the next 18 years, so get used to it. Babysitters are people too, and good ones are a hot commodity. If she told the babysitter she'd be home by 11, make sure she's home by 11!
Her children's games are the only ones she wants to play. Feel like she's perfect except you don't want kids? Instead of pretending you know what it's like, ask questions and be humble. Be ready for rapid-fire spontaneity or an ironclad calendar. She probably doesn't need saving, but she definitely needs a massage. If you want to whisk her away for a romantic weekend, offer to help with the parental logistics so she's relaxed on her trip, not distracted with worry.
Glazed old-fashioned might be the closest thing to a Bloody Mary you both can get. Speaking of Bloody Marys, hangovers aren't an option anymore. Say good-bye to after-parties, say hello to more-time-for sex (Lock the door!
It's not about being in your 20s or your 30s or your 40s; it's about keeping it together during a living room performance of and wiping butts and doing laundry.
There is nothing more beautiful than a joyful child.
Every time a single parent makes a date they have to find suitable, affordable childcare for their kids and this isn’t always easy.
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